Well, since my last blog, which might have been yesterday, everything in Sacto has blown up. Both girls are accusing the other of drug use/abuse, lying, stealing, and all manner of other, unfortunately typical, grumblings of a pair that know far too much about one another and their internal problems and fears. Name calling and accusations are tough things to get over, and at this point in time, I do not know what to believe or who to believe. I know Anna has been trying to get her Rx for atterol refilled-by whatever means she can muster, and Wess has been hanging around that guy I mentioned yesterday way too much for her own good. She tried to get out of work yesterday, but I convinced her to get her butt up and to work. Everything seemed terrific up until she got off work last night. According her Wess, Anna lied about several things including accusing Wess of using Anna's credit card without consent. This started an argument that escalated into open warfare. Although everything seemd to be perfect as of about 9pm last night, for some reason, unbeknowst to me, Anna left my mother's after mom fell asleep about 9. A boy , we'll called him Sam, came and picked her up. Sam is one of Wess' really close friends and , apparently, Anna had had a te-da-te with him last weekend. This might have been what started things up. Anna also accused Wess of using , and for her part, Wess just tossed Anna out of the house saying that she didn't trust her around her grandmother. I am attempting to get Anna back up here as I will want to run some damage control with Anna, make certain her weight is good and help place her back on her course. As for Wess, like most hard core drug users, I do not think she realizes how obvious her addictive behaviors are to anyone who knows her. When she does drugs of any sort, her behaviors change quite dramatically. I'm afraid that if she doesn't start taking her work situation more seriously, ie, stop whatever negative behaviors she is exhibiting and buckle down, I think she may loose this opportunity for freedom. As for my mother, I am recalling my sister who is teaching English to children in central China. She will have to return home to help organize my mom and make certain she is well cared for.


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